IT IS ABUSE

It Is Abuse: The Weaponized System is an advocacy platform dedicated to exposing coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and the growing problem of legal system weaponization against victims.

Abuse doesn’t always leave visible bruises. In many cases, it shows up through manipulation, intimidation, financial sabotage, false accusations, and the strategic misuse of legal systems. When these tactics move into family court and the criminal justice system, they can become even more devastating — allowing abusers to maintain control through custody battles, legal harassment, and the distortion of victim protection laws.

The Pinup Advocate was created to shine a light on these hidden forms of abuse and to give survivors a place where their experiences are acknowledged, understood, and discussed openly.

Through storytelling, video commentary, and advocacy work, this platform aims to:

• Raise awareness about coercive control and narcissistic abuse
• Expose how legal systems can be manipulated to silence victims
• Encourage open conversations about systemic failures in family court
• Support survivors who feel unheard or misrepresented
• Advocate for legal reforms that better protect victims and their children

Much of the content on this site connects directly to the The Pin-Up Advocate  YouTube channel, where real stories, case analysis, and educational discussions explore the complex intersection between abuse and the justice system.

This platform exists for anyone who has ever felt that the system designed to protect them instead became part of the abuse.

By speaking openly about these experiences, we can push for accountability, awareness, and meaningful change.

Because silence protects abuse — but speaking out can expose it.